When she was 22, the future looked bright. She is nearly 30 now and have mid life crisis.
You are not alone. Maybe you worry, maybe you nervous but it’s okay. You already hit your Saturn Return. If you do not know yet, Saturn Return is a phase where you will experienced intense growth, discomfort and maturity. This time you will learn to take responsibility for yourself and make you questioning everyting. Saturn Return will hit you when you are 28-29 years old, and it will force you to make important life decisions. It will push you to be honest with where you are falling short. This time may feel hash and unsympathetic, but it is preparing you to own the next chapter of your life. Maybe you feel like failing, but its a good sign that you are right on schedule.
Sometimes you need to lose yourself before you know who you are, so be thankful for everyone who hurting you
It’s time to love yourself more. It’s time to make peace with your past. Do some meditation, say sorry for yourself because you let other people hurting you again and again. Because you let yourself become someone else just because you want to pleased the one that you think important.
Do some talk with yourself. Ask yourself what your heart wants. Maybe it sounds crazy but believe me, it is one of a way to know more about yourself. If i may ask you, when the last time you put yourself above first? Maybe some of you answer always, but i believe some other is need a time to think first before answering this question.
This year, before you hit your 30, you need to make a big decision. Getting married, getting divorce, buying properties, find a new career path or anything else. It’s time to know what you want in your life.
I know it’s hard but this time, you will be fine because you are strong enough to hit the rock bottom and then crawling back. All you need to do is make your own affirmative support and focusing on yourself.
Stop becoming the big bully for yourself. Stop complaining your body shape. Change this sentence:
“I am too fat!”
“I am too ugly!”
“I will find my prince.”
“Someday the one will come and make me happy”
Into this sentence:
“I will fine and i will make my own happiness”
“I am beautiful”
“Today i will be happy”
Remember, you are who you think you are
So be happy, your fabulous 30 are ready to give you sweet surprises and drowning you with happiness!